2022 is Here. Cheers to the New Year

2022 is here. Cheers to the New Year. Opening a new book to read and staring at a blank page of a new journal, waking up to a new day and meeting someone for the first time, and taking the first bite of a delicious meal. All of these things come with possibilities. Still, often we miss them. Because we’re stuck in our heads overthinking, or we’re so freaking busy, being busy, that we miss a precious moment that could have led to a beautiful one.

Cheers to 2022It is a New Year

It is now 9 PM on December 31st, and I am thinking about the new year. Starting this coming year is quite different for me. I am not overthinking anything, not worried about anything or anyone. I don’t care how/what people think of me or why they think/feel the way they do about me. I am here now, at the moment, and waiting for the clock to strike midnight.

I feel different, very different than I have ever felt. I feel a sense of peacefulness— don’t get me wrong, it’s not that my life is perfect, or I’m blissful, and everything is just great, no, not at all, that’s so far from the truth. 

I am working on getting clear about my life and what I want. I don’t know what I will do to earn an income this coming year. I don’t feel so great about myself, I feel lost, and I don’t feel very much in love with myself. But I am here writing this, and sincerely grateful to be alive. Because I am alive, I can fix those things and lead a fulfilling life. And yes, I may not know all that I want or need out of life, but I am clear on one thing: I would like to live the rest of my life in a fulfilling way.

For quite a few months now, I felt myself going inside. I started praying again, really praying. I became more aware of what I was thinking and feeling and started getting honest with myself. Focusing on me [first just a little, then more]—the girl I have neglected for too long, the girl I am discovering and getting to know. I am learning about her likes and dislikes and what makes her smile. I am being courageous and finding HER.

 It has not been easy, yet it is not difficult; it has simply been different. I feel the uneasiness, shame, guilt, and unworthiness can sometimes be overwhelming. But I am forging ahead.

I am Uneasy because who am I to think I can and should focus on myself? Shame, because maybe those who have called me selfish in the past were telling the truth because I’m being selfish here, aren’t I? Guilty because there are people in my life whom I love and care about tremendously, but yet I am choosing to focus on myself.

And unworthy because I have never felt worthy enough to focus on myself, make myself happy, or feel safe and loved.

It has always been about one person or another but never about me. This time it is about me, and just typing, “this time, it is about me,” I feel like a badass; I feel brave, and something deep within me smiled. 

2021 has been such a teaching year for me; it was painful. This year has been filled with hurt and lessons, doubt and loneliness, loss and fear, and strength and weaknesses. So unbearable days, sleepless nights, and tears, but I survived and am here, hours away from a new year. 

I encourage…

Tonight I write to encourage and inspire you to FOCUS on yourself this coming year, get to know who you are, what you like, what you love, what you don’t like, what makes you happy, what makes you smile, and what gives you peace and contentment.

All those things and so much more because you deserve and are worthy of them. I believe we are meant to know ourselves and love ourselves with the same energy and commitment; we love all the people we now love and all we’ve loved at some point in our lives. 

So my Dahlings, cheers to the New Year. I wish you a beautiful 2022. I pray it will be the year you want. I pray you embrace all of it, the beauty, the lessons, the joy, the peace, etc. But most of all, I pray that it is a year of Discovery—the year you discover yourself at your core and love every bit of the journey.

To be continued….

Nat C.


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